People use to think that “when I marry there won’t be attraction again from every side, I’ll just be focused with my wife or husband”
Well, I like to announce to you that that is a lie! Especially for folks who have a set attractions in their hearts.
In fact, all of us have who we’re attracted to. Attraction is just like what you like or what your heart can easily give in to without thinking…
Thinking your wife is the most beautiful person on earth or your husband is the most handsome and you’ve now got all you wanted in a man or woman because you’re married and no one can distract you is to lie to yourself.
Truth is this, you’ll always find people that are more beautiful and handsome that your partner and you’ll always find many people with whom you’re so attracted to and may seem they came late in your life…
For folks who are married, after you will have thought it through that your husband have it all maybe on sex or maybe his penis is all the largest in the world.
You’ll see some men who’s penis like that of a horse and can even sleep with a woman for hours and till the woman says she’s tired!
You’ll always find folks that are better than your partner and you’re attracted to daily! Listen to this, what you’re attracted to will not end or have your eyes closed to in marriage.
Marriage does not close people’s eyes against their attractions. In fact, in marriage you’re more open to see a higher attraction than when you’re single! I can say the temptation in being married is more than that of being single.
This is why it is dangerous when people feel marriage is a cage that locks their fornication or lust! It’s a lie, it opens it up the more unless God help you!
Marriage is not what house your fornication… That’s why the advance level of fornication is called “adultery” and this is done out marriage…
What makes many people to fall into their attraction is not because they wanted to fall. But, it’s just an attraction that can not be denied especially with the opposite sex.
See, no matter what anyone may tell you about their sexual prowess. Please never give in to it. Never! I’ll teach you ways to deal with your attractions with the opposite sex and how to face who you’re attracted to which is your partner in marriage!
If people can deal with themselves and then be sincere with what they’re attracted to… It will be easy to find help so they won’t fall even in marriage.
But, because people are not so certain enough and loves to deceive themselves and claim they can handle it. They fall their attractions easily.
It’s easy for a man that love party jollof rice to fall for it because he enjoys eating it than a man who hates it.