Today, we will discuss on how to suck the penis/ how to do a blow job (bj). I remain sexologist Omolola Natural. So, over and over I have had to answer questions on whether blow job is right or wrong. As simple as it seem, it has destroyed many homes. And truthfully, the ones who avoids this part of their marriage are majorly Christians, most Muslims I have been privileged to counsel have no issue with giving or getting a ‘head’ from their spouse.
So, I am not surprised when ‘Christian’ men upon Christian men tell me ” my wife satisfies me sexually, but since she sees giving head as wrong, I get that one from outside”
This is to wake women up. It is not compulsory, but I would like you to open your mind and learn.
I reached a point in my marriage, while trying to balance all the lesson of ‘don’t do this, don’t do that’ that we learn concerning marriage, and trying to settle the issue of blow job, I had to take the question to God.
So, If you speak to Him, ask Him before your marriage hits the rock because of something so simple. I also need to mention it here that as men if you want a blow job, then don’t be selfish, give her one too. It makes her go ‘mad’. So…enough story. Lets get to business. If you have not given your husband a blow job before, let me teach you how to do it.
First, ensure your mouth is clean, if you just ate pepper, go brush.
Second, look at that diagram up again. There are two parts that’s very important in a penis
By important, I mean sensitive
The two are;
The frenulum is where your foreskin meets the underside of your penis. It looks like a small V just below the head. Usually part of it remains after circumcision. And for many people, it’s very sensitive.
The scrotum (AKA ballsack) is the sac of skin that hangs below your penis. Your scrotum holds your testicles and keeps them at the right temperature. If it’s too cold, your scrotum pulls your testicles closer to your body. If it’s too warm, your testicles hang away from your body.
Your scrotum is covered with wrinkly skin and hair. Your scrotum can be big or small, have a little or a lot of hair, and vary in color. Some people’s scrotum is larger on one side than the other.
The scrotum is super sensitive, so any hitting or twisting is extremely painful. But many people like having their scrotum gently touched during sex.
So this two parts should be focused on. First, you start from the scrotum…lick the balls one after the other, slowly, gently without your teeth. Then bring your tongue up, trace the penis with it and leave it, trace it on his belly button to his stomach as you prepare him for what is to come. When he least expect, take his penis into your mouth, as far into your throat as you can.
Now, let me state here that you probably won’t be able to get his whole penis down your throat the first time, so test the waters, take it in little by little until you reach a point comfortable for you.
As simple as that. Suck like you will a sweet.
If you are just starting out or if you’ve been doing it this same way, you can spice it up. By using honey or ice block. So, how do you do this? Rub honey on the penis and lick/ suck it off. Gently, deeply engaging just your tongue and lips.
If its ice block break it into cubes/pieces…and keep under your tongue. So when you suck bring it up at intervals…this makes your mouth warm one moment, and cold another, thereby giving your husband two sensations at once
Have you ever had sex with your husband and hear him speak in tongues? Well, you can’t do this and not hear him speak in languages you don’t understand. I can bet my money on this.😊
Now. For you both to enjoy this, suck him with the mindset of no expectation
Don’t suck him because you want him to release, suck him for fun. And make sure you enjoy yourself too while at it.
While you suck his penis, alternate, with sucking his balls, when your mouth leave the ball, let your fingers do the work. Also ensure that your mouth is well lubricated with saliva while you do this
So, let’s delve a bit into taking the penis dip into your throat.
It is like fucking an extremely tight vagina. The enclosed feeling, the tightness around the penis is what makes men go over their head when their woman can take it all in. Like earlier said, you don’t have to try this the first time, take it in gradually. If you will do deepthroating ensure your food had digested long before the session. You take the penis in while imagining you are trying to swallow a very large pill.
You might choke, cough, have your eyes water up, its all fine. I usually advice, just take your time. The penis is all yours forever, don’t rush it all in one day.